And about my marriage when I was...

A mulatto and my mother was from Brazil, that causes a social revolution because at the time the girls in Europe stayed locked in the home until the date of the marriage and that change because, everybody knew that I married brazillian girls and they were free to walk outside home, how many others countries that are far from Europe that copy the European use? The girls of my country laugh about my marriage because I spent so much money that in their mind probably I had spent all my money. I contract a ceremonialist I had follow all the rules from Europe I never liked breaking social rules, the uses in Brazil were that the father of the bride pays the marriage and the bride dress and of the little girls that walk with her inside the church and the father of the groom pay the alcoholic drink, is because who would give so much after the ceremony for the couple is the family of the groom. I write to my father that he doesn't be worried because I already since kid made economies for my marriage. Because that, my father went to my marriage and also the police, I thought that I would see him I only knew he was there but we didn't talk!!! And the ceremonialist said that I can have a richier marriage than a prince, so I spent much money, that I being mulatto was very elegant if I am rich don't economy to be modest, I buy so many beverages from Arabia that came the biggest traders from there to talk with me and they were invited to my marriage, the marriage have a lot of people that asked to be invited to knew my fiances that they were seeing my family tree, they only see compliments there.

So after the marriage, the girls from Europe see that if they don't walk free outside the home they would not choose who married, they complain that the boys could make a lie to get inside their homes to know them, which was romantic knew a girl caged at home. That mulattos were unpolite what coast they do that kind of things. Have a lot of countries that copy the uses from Europe. Too many safe isn't care, love and care is freedom, what a man get when married a locked woman, does she have choice? The choice isn't one man or another but freedom, so what a man could expect of that marriage, the parents have a lot of security and the risk is for the husband.

Rute Bezerra de Menezes Gondim